When good days strike, be happy about it but when bad days come around, just stick around. More than anybody else understanding, it’s important for mothers to realise that they are juggling between different worlds and that they are doing to the best of their abilities. Being true to yourself is crucial if you want to set yourself free. Since there are greater demands placed from the outside on today’s women – to be perfect wives, super moms and successful business women – there have been greater degrees of internal conflict in many women about their complete and yet uncertain roles. Setting impossible standards of perfection, one just wears themselves out! And everything does not have to be perfect. It’s okay to be lacking in certain things. The family clothes don’t always have to be kept clean and folded.
Children can be taken care of by the father. It’s okay if the cars are not well maintained for a day. The groceries don’t have to be fully stocked. Family and household financial management need not be perfectly ordered.
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Not having a dinner table full of elaborately prepared family dishes is not an imperfection. It’s absolutely fine if the kitchen or entire house is not immaculately clean. Mother’s don’t have to strive for perfection at everything.
This syndrome can arise when you begin to feel exhausted and guilty at the same time for all the things you have got to do, but can’t get done. Also, the exceptional social expectations are also making mothers vulnerable to the syndrome. A greater level of energy is needed than before. With today’s busy schedule and the ever-growing demands of their time, it is getting harder to balance life, career and family. Mothers can at times become overwhelmed by the enormous amount of responsibilities that they face as a modern woman. Let us all understand one thing at a time. It’s a façade that is pushing mothers into stress zone.
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